Help... Newbie here, to many board choices!

korgae,
as you can see there are so many choices out there and it will take time to find what is right for you. my first suggestion is, whenever you get a chance to demo knew boards or try your friends board, do it. also dont be afraid to miss match brands, pick whatever you feel the best on. im 210 lbs and ride a hyperlite state 145, with state bindings, love it. as for line and handle, i have had no problems with SL. make sure your using the proper non-stretch wake line. i own a SL eclipse LE carbon-fiber handle. its very lite but i only use it when i have experienced riders in the boat. so i would choose one that would be less damaging to you and your boat. my vest is a oniell "the law" uscg approved and i found it the best fit for me. i just where my old school pro tech skate helmet for now, waiting for santa. so get some time and start shopping xmas is almost here